Sunday, April 27, 2008

a new love

Although I'm sure the farmer hasn't read my last post, he must have sensed the vibe. For he bought me home a present this afternoon. It is a skinny orphan calf, and I have named her Lulu. I am not sure if it is a girl, but Lulu seems right. It has just drunk it's first bottle of milk and I hope that it is a bit stronger in the morning. My pet Brownie from last year came up to have a look - and she is huge compared to little Lulu. Again wishing we had a functional camera, but just imagine a black calf with a white face - and the cutest cow face ever seen!
The farmer is the love of my life.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

turning thirty

thirty's just around the corner for me (about a month). And I'm having somewhat of a problem with that. So I thought I should use the opportunity to do thirty things around the date of my birthday to help distract from this event. I've got about 10 things so far.
One of the things I am feeling acutely as thirty approaches is my current lack of engagement with social justice. My work at the moment involves working with the most disadvantaged people in Esperance, and while I feel I do offer them a chance to interact with a health professional, it doesn't feel like much changes when they walk out the door. In the past my volunteer work has given me a chance to maintain an outwards focus, but here's the issue. If I spend any length of time in Esperance, I generally bump into clients who would rather not see me. And sometimes I would rather not see them. So while I continue with this work, it makes it hard to have personal relationships with people who are marginalised without crossing some boundary. So I'm pondering what to do as I turn thirty - feeling more self-centred than I ever have before. The movie that triggered this for me is the Oasis movie off the ABC - but I think the change that may happen can only be good.
Tim is working long hours again as we have started seeding crops. This weekend I am finding that difficult - talking to yourself has nobs on it.

Thursday, April 17, 2008

...and a favourite series

























Our uncle and friend, Doug.

some more of the day





the circle of life

Today some small friends of mine came out from Esperance for the day. We went catching yabbies at the dam, and managed to catch 5 good sized ones. Tonight I used 2 for dinner. I was quite traumatized to have to pull the heads off while they were still very alive. I actually apologised to the animal while I was doing it which seems ridiculous now...It made me think about the other animal products that we eat. Ironic, living on a farm.
I ordered a new digital camera today so hopefully we will have some pics to add to this blog soon. Off to Mandurah this weekend for my Grandma's 80th.

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

a farm wife part two

March 1st 2008 was everything we wished for. Highlights include the vintage Jag some friends organised for Kath, having an array of precious friends and family present and show stopping food made with care by farm friends. We were also fortunate enough to have our flowers picked from many gardens and amazingly arranged by Tim's aunty Jen and cousin Gilli. It was a great day to reflect on the goodness that my farmer brings into my life.
Nearly three weeks spent on the beach in Thailand means that Tim is having difficulty fitting into his clothes and I am incredibly physically tired by the most menial tasks...However we had the honeymoon that should be had after a wedding. We stayed on three islands - Ko Yao, Ko Phi Phi and Ko Lanta. We read voraciously and ate well. The final night I booked on a cheap rooms site - and it turned out to be a 5 star hotel just off Orchard Rd in Singapore. It was fabulous!
We have been home for two weeks now. I am probably having adjustment issues - although it's difficult to tell what to...Last week I spent agonizing over whether to pursue two job opportunities in town, and decided I wouldn't. It seems I will have to make the decision to be a good farm wife more than once! TOday I am feeling inspired about finally getting organised and creating tidy spaces to live in. It's hard to be creative when things are very messy.
Here's to my official farm wife life.

the big day






here we are! some lovely photos from our friends gareth and michelle.